UPDATE: We have changed what we are looking for. Please read the "My Ideal Per" section below. Thanks. We are a good looking professional couple. He is 5'11", 195lbs, mostly gray hair. She is 5'3", 125lbs, brown hair, very nice soft skin, 34C breasts. We aren't hard bodies but we are in decent shape. We hike, bike, sail, and generally are very active. She is very multi-orgasmic. We don't smoke or do any drugs. We are both "fixed" and disease free. We both can be bi in the right situation, him more than her (oral only). We both have one big turnoff (besides smoking when with us) and that is people who sweat heavily during sex. We know it's just natural for some people but if you do, please don't contact us.

Mi persona ideal: UPDATE: Unfortunately, we had a few bad experiences meeting single guys in the last two years. As a result, my wife is a bit turned off by the meet for drinks and jump in bed scene. We would be interested in meeting a couple or single bi guy in a no pressure situation to see if we can get to a FWB relationship. Let's meet for dinner or a drink and get to know each other. That would probably involve more than one social meeting. If you are not interested in becoming friends first then WE are not interested in meeting.

However for ME, I am interested in meeting singles or couples alone. My wife would know and she doesn't mind if I play without her. We are both retired and together ALL the time so I couldn't "cheat" if I wanted to. I would like to feel comfortable with people I play with but don't need to be friends first. I usually can't host so if you can it's a big plus.

If you are a cruising sailor let's get together and trade sea stories (or more!). We lived aboard for the last two years and cruised the Bahamas and Virgin Islands. Don't worry.. we are very discreet. If we meet for a drink and decide not to play, you won't have to worry about running into us in an anchorage somewhere.